The following article is from Madeleine Magazine’s A Perfect Fit, written by yours truly.
As we head into a New Year and a new decade, The New Year resolution campaigns will be fiercely front and centre come January 1st 2010.
What is it about the first of the year that has us searching to find our motivation to make positive changes in our not so positive lifestyles? Four of Canadian’s top 10 New Years Resolutions include; Lose Weight, Stop Smoking, Exercise More and Eat Better. Do any one of these sound familiar? It is not enough to do your best at making these lifestyle changes. You’ll have greater success, purpose and direction by setting goals.
Setting lifestyle goals can be a daunting task at best. But oh how it empowers! The path becomes as clear as the words on your paper. Even more rewarding is succeeding and attaining what you set out to do.
Being good at anything requires time, frequent personal attention and passionate interest in the result. Setting and achieving lifestyle goals requires the same. Aristotle got it right when he coined the phrase “we are what we repeatedly do”.
Set goals, often, revisit them, revise them and move toward your goals all year long. January 1st brings good intentions. However, the majority of good intentions fall short with follow through and consequently this year’s resolution turns into 12 months of resolution pollution.
Why not start a system this month, before the Christmas chaos and the resolution pollution confuses and clouds your vision.
Those of you who followed Madeleine’s last issue may recall, a goal is your dreams written down. SMART goal setting principles suggest that your goals are:
1. Specifically defined with a time line. You are not going to lose weight. You are going to lose 10lbs in 45 days from a weigh in weight on November 15th of 162lbs. There is a beginning and an end.
2. Meaningful enough to motivate you. Your success at pursuing and achieving this goal is greatest when the ‘why you want it’ is clear, strong and of great importance. Motivation will give you power and you will reach your goals sooner. What’s yours? For example, losing 10lbs will allow my clothes to fit. I’ll be more comfortable, feel better about myself, have greater confidence and motivate me to go after a promotion and a raise.
3. Achievable with a challenge. The great Michelangelo believes “The Greatest danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.” It is highly possible to lose 1.25 pounds in a week. The challenge is to do it week in, week out for 6 consecutive weeks.
4. Relevant reward upon completion. Celebrate your success. The money you save living a healthier lifestyle will afford you to purchase a great fitting outfit to wear when you waltz into the office to secure a new position and raise! Or concert tickets to your favorite band. Avoid rewarding yourself with a behaviour that may tempt or challenge your weight loss objective, such as a decadent night out of overindulgence.
5. Time and attention on your goals and action steps should be ongoing. Post your goals where you will come across them randomly within the month; however, set designated time each month to help keep your efforts focused, allow time for reflection to readjust your goals with life changing events or to affirm that you are on track for completion.
Most people fail to maintain lifestyle changes because they get so focused on the outcome that they forget about the process. Setting goals is part of the process. Take the time and think about what it will take to achieve them.
When the New Year arrives and someone asks “did you make a New Year’s Resolution?” You can confidently tell them “yes” months ago, I’m half way there.”
For a goal setting worksheet CLICK HERE to get you started today!